Irugapatru - Difficult to ‘hold tight’

We all have grown up listening to how marriages are ‘made in heaven’. The new generation might want to debate that notion as many marriages are ending in divorce or separation either within 2-3 years or in 50-60s. And the new film ‘Irugapatru’ deals with something that lies somewhere between the old and the new reality. The title means 'hold tight' in Tamil. However, be it the script or the BGM, nothing helps us to hold on to the film. But I finished it, and trust me, it was a hard watch. 

The film opens with Shraddha Srinath’s character, who is a psychologist, promoting couple counselling, even for someone who is newly married. As a viewer, I wasn’t completely sold on the idea because isn’t it normal for two people, who have never lived together, have differences? And for those who’d ask - What about love marriages? - Well, they too, for most part, live separately. Even for people who have lived with each other before marriage, settling with the family members is also a process. So, post-marriage, for several years, I believe the struggle to fit in, in one way or the other, is inevitable. For some, the transition is smooth, and for some, it is difficult than what they would’ve imagined.

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But coming back to the story, the film starts well. It introduces us to three couples - one where the husband emphasises on how he is uncomfortable with his wife gaining weight after childbirth, second where husband thinks wife is drifting away from him due to independency, and their is a story around Shraddha’s character as well where she implements all her psychology knowledge on her husband. 

The film's first 30-40 minutes is relatable and fun. When Shraddha’s character teaches her husband about affirmations, small gestures, how to be equal in a relationship, you (especially as a woman) agree with her. However, the agreement doesn’t continue for long. The film’s mood shifts to serious and it continues to be so for the next 1.5 hours ( it felt longer). Each couple has their own set of issues -- you empathise with them, hate them but the run time, and the never ending sobbing prove to be a huge hurdle in your wish to reach the film's climax.

The intention to make couple counselling normal and introduce it to the audience via a film is a commendable move. I will also appreciate the director for successfully bringing forth the common issues among the couples today. But it could have been said/shown in a better manner, and making the film crisper would've helped a lot in that mission. The weak script and super weak music brought this film down. Actors were pretty good for the parts they played.


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